One thing my therapist and friends have told me is "you need to figure out if you really want to work".
That really stumps me. My quick answer is: obviously I want to work. But I get the feeling that they're asking me to more carefully and honestly consider the question.
Some things I've run across that might help me figure out this riddle. (bold items indicate ideas that are explored further, below)
Existentialism [wikipedia]
Subsequent existential philosophers retain the emphasis on the individual, but differ, in varying degrees, on how one achieves and what constitutes a fulfilling life, what obstacles must be overcome, and what external and internal factors are involved ... Many existentialists have also regarded traditional systematic or academic philosophy, in both style and content, as too abstract and remote from concrete human experience.
The theme of authentic existence is common to many existentialist thinkers. It is often taken to mean that one has to "find oneself" and then live in accordance with this self.
Emphasizing action, freedom, and decision as fundamental, existentialists oppose themselves to rationalism and positivism. That is, they argue against definitions of human beings as primarily rational. ... Sartre saw problems with rationality, calling it a form of "bad faith", an attempt by the self to impose structure on a world of phenomena — "the Other" — that is fundamentally irrational and random. According to Sartre, rationality and other forms of bad faith hinder people from finding meaning in freedom.
The notion of the Absurd contains the idea that there is no meaning to be found in the world beyond what meaning we give to it. This meaninglessness also encompasses the amorality or "unfairness" of the world.
Kierkegaard [wikipedia]
Contemporary philosophers such as ... have adapted some Kierkegaardian insights. Hilary Putnam admires Kierkegaard, "for his insistence on the priority of the question, 'How should I live?'".
scholars have interpreted Kierkegaard variously as, among others, an existentialist, neo-orthodoxist, postmodernist, humanist, and individualist.
Humanistic psychology [wikipedia]
Humanistic psychology is sometimes understood within the context of the three different forces of psychology: behaviorism, psychoanalysis and humanism.
Humanism [wikipedia]
Individualism [wikipedia]
Absurdism [wikipedia]
the Absurd arises out of the fundamental disharmony between the individual's search for meaning and the apparent meaninglessness of the universe. ... humans have three ways of resolving the dilemma: suicide, religion, or acceptance. ... Acceptance of the Absurd: a solution in which one accepts and even embraces the Absurd and continues to live in spite of it.
(table 1: Relationship between atheistic existentialism and absurdism)